thanks once again for being here. Although we have never met f2f here at PC some of you know me quite well. It takes a lot of concurent stressors to get me to off. I am proud that I never reacted either positively nor negatively to his angry yelling rants. Yes I have a friend staying on the couch in my little den/library. I think he sized this guy up and let me learn my lesson without rubbing my face but stayed because his apartment is going through major renovations. So this is my plan. I call him on his cell, tell him that he cannot stay here after all and he needs to come get his things at an arranged time. At that time I will be outside with all his things, door locked, phone in hand. I do not have to give him a reason, argue or debate, make up reasons or converse with him. I have no respect for him or is opinions. Starting a debate with an angry, irrational person will not be productive/pleasant. I am sticking to "you can't stay here...you need to leave" as my mantra. I will keep you updated.