My husband is 47 and was diagnosed as bipolar a year ago. He was a successful business man with a good career. Since then he has lost his job and will not look for another one. He says he is looking, but has not put out one resume. My daughter and I are filling out applications and putting out resumes for him online. I think he thinks staying at home sleeping is looking for a job. He lies to me about companies he has called, but when I look at his phone records he has not called anyone. I feel like I am treating him like a kid asking him what he has done that day and who he has contacted. He is an adult, he knows I cannot pay the bills without his help, but he has gone 6 months without working and doesn't seem to care about anything. I am at my wits end and I don't know how to get him motivated. I have tried to show him the bills and how deperate we are. I can't stop being pissed off at him all the time and I am tired of feeling this way. Help!!