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Originally Posted by peaches100
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I fall into that mindset where i think its "either my t cares" "or she does not" -- either the relationship is personally caring or clinical. And then i go back and forth believing the relationship is one way or the other, depending on how my t is acting or speaking at the time.
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I'm not sure that's the gray area. I think T cares about you.
Maybe the gray area is this???...
I know T cares about me in the same way ALL THE TIME. For me, this is the gray area: sometimes my T's caring will be very obvious to me, sometimes he will make mistakes, sometimes he will disappoint me, sometimes he will make my day with something he says, sometimes we will feel close, sometimes we will feel distant, sometimes he will make me mad or sad, sometimes I will make him mad or sad, sometimes we will laugh together, sometimes we will have very clinical discussions....but through all of that, our relationship remains the SAME. None of that changes the fact that I care about T, that he cares about me, and that our relationship is real, true, and important.
