Call DV Hotline to share my situation and go over my script. The only change she recommended was to have him come in, tell him he needs to get his things together and leave as he cannot stay here. If he gets angry and threatens me in anyway, call 911. I do not even have to listen to his rant...just call 911. That is my part. My higher power has made a big rainstorm (since he is an adult he rides a bicycle like a big boy). Sometimes my higher power has a sense of humor and I like it. I will be ranting and venting (children do that even though I am 47). Somecome back lines if he gets emotionally stupid are: you need to get your things and go, adults can handle situations like this. Well maybe I am (fill in the blank) but you need to leave now. Those are some starters. I feel calm. Knowing you are here for me makes all the difference in the world.