Coming from a "couch sleeper" myself I can say that it has nothing to do with me not wanting to sleep with my husband but once I fall asleep on the couch it seems like so much effort to get up and go to bed. I know that sounds silly but then that is what my mind tells me at the time. It also seems so cold to get up and move. It sounds stuupid as I write this but this is what happens to me. Believe me it has nothing to do with the relationship but rather that I get lulled to sleep prior to going to bed and just find it too hard to move.

Please don't take it personally. Some of us just have couchatosis I guess. Talk to him about it if it bothers you this much. I am sure he will be understanding to your feelings too. PM me if I can give you any more reassurance.