I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in many places. Time will take time and time will give you a renewal of your self. And you will never forget your dearest darling daughter and you will always remember and love her.
It is about your loss and that is ok.
Please go to my blog (
http://notz.psychcentral.net/2009/10/03/13/ )...my writing may ring true for you.