Good post ...thanks for putting into words what I was thinking drunksunflower.

I will be honest ...I pm'd a few here asking who justben is. A while ago we had another poster with a similar name and my first thought was that it was him. The ones I pm'd had no idea who he is...these are posters that have been here for a while. Yes this concerns me as well. This is nothing personal against justben and drunksunflower pointed that out repeatedly.

DocJohn provides a wonderful environment and kudos to him as well as to all the moderators.

I have been quiet here for a while....not sure if it's me &/or combination of the site....just my 2 cents

I think what it is for me is that kimmydawn is so open and honest here - Ozzie was as well....that made such a difference for all of us. I am not saying that justben won't be but....it just seems "different" to me anyways.