Thank you everyone!!

Indeed, I did just that - went to the bathroom, had a good long cry, washed my face and fixed my makeup(not for the person, but so I felt more myself )

Then i went in and explained myself and why I reacted poorly. My friend responded very well, and told me that instead of sitting out in the living room stewing in my own juices and then becoming angry and defeated, causing me to lashout - i should just come in and ask for a hug and an explanation. Why that didnt occur to me at the time as a viable option I have no idea. On any hand, everything is back to normal and I am reassured very much.

Thanks for supporting me you guys. Maybe next time instead of going ape...crap,lol I will come here and tell you guys what was said and what went on, so you can help me figure out whats the best course of action.

xxoo