Dearest (((fins)))

I honestly think that women should be ok enough not to have an emotionally or physically violent reaction to their husband looking at a woman. If they don't like it fair enough deal with it as soon as possible, don't stew on it.

I respect your feelings dear fin and I'm not having a go at you at all or you shewhoissweet; I just think it is better to support people who are either insecure or controllers in their relationship to work on it and heal whatever the problem is. Your indication was that you will not tolerate roving eyes". This is either an insecurity or a controlism.

I do agree that there is a line that should not be crossed and I think turning around to get a better look, or trying to get her to look them in the eye so they can send a visual sexual message is wrong and should be discussed.

But I must say to each their own. I just think it would be much more peaceful for the woman who dislikes this behaviour to come to a peace rather than blow her stack. I simply confronted my partner with my feelings and he now knows what I'd prefer he not do, and I am comfortable with that and so is my partner,

Loving thoughts,

Rhian