I feel a bit like Mellors and DSF in a way. BUT I will say that I have kept quiet about it cause for

1. He seems supportive.
2You cant judge the book by the cover. Even if you dont trust what may
be inside.
3. I know that I hate when people dont/wont give me a chance when I
really want/need to do something. This comes from issues I have
with rejection though.
4 And LOL I like the name Ben hehehehehe

I know and understand the decision was quick . But wouldnt we want to
be given a chance?

Thanks,
Beth7