It's July 1st and I visited my parent's grave. Mom's been gone a year and a month, dad's been gone 16 years ... I think we buried him on the 1st of July.

I hadn't been to the grave in many years, not even to the graveside service for mom last year.

I put a cross and some lilies and an American flag ... and took a picture. Then I sent the photo emailed it--to the rest of the siblings. "What's wrong with this picture?" Mom's name and dates haven't been added to Dad's plate ... and there are 4 holes drilled for another plate for some reason. It should have been included in the outrageous price my sister made us pay for the funeral ... yet?

I'm not pursuing the issue. I can't. I just can't care any more.

Thanks for reading.