Dear whoever can help me or read this,

I was introduced to this guy in 2007. He is from Mississippi and I am from NM. We started talking on a daily basis and didnt stop til one of us fell asleep. Then I got bored one night and called his brother. I just wanted to talk to someone...anyone. He freaked out and said he hated me and never wanted to speak to me again. Anyway so during that two years I met someone else and had a baby and then was engaged and he sends me a message. So things started to be like they were before, but he knows I am engaged. He said nothing was set it stone but my baby. Anyway one things sets him off and he doesnt want to talk to me til he is cooled off. Anyway so he cools down. So we talk, but things became different. He started to see me in a sexual way after talking and saying that I would look good in silk. He started asking me questions like what I liked. Then we would have phone sex. It was weird. Anyway.. I dont know if the guy was using me or what? Im trying to to forget he existed, but I cant do it because I had developed feelings for him. I wont get any closure if I dont confront this guy.--Mere