Hmmmm. I don't know. You say guess it isn't really her problem though, and maybe I'm reading this wrongly, but I think it _is_. How's *that* work? *She's* allowed to have an issue about how's she's treated, but *you're* not???!!! I think your instincts are right. She sounds immature and bratty. And that's _her_ problem, not yours. No sense in beating yourself up over the fact that she seems to think that the universe revolves only around her feelings, right? Your feeling bad won't change that in her, she has to do it herself.
to you, it's still not a pleasant situation to be in.