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Originally Posted by 50guy
If he truly loved you he would stop this activity. IF he can't do it on his own he would seek counsel. Love would conquer this addiction. He would do it for you, don't be a fool and fall for the "I can't help it" routine. There are many ways to stop this behavior.
Best wishes to you and your family....
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This is not true. Love isnt enough. You have to understand this man is an addict, and like all addicts he is in denial of his behavior.
I wouldnt give up on your husband just yet. I would gather his friends, parents, pastor, etc and discuss with them what is going on. I would hold an intervention. I am being serious.
Get together the people in his life he cares about and confront him in a serious way. Let him know if he doesnt get help that you will separate (if possible) until he gets the help he needs.
Remember he is an addict and his emotional/mental problems run very deep. He is in need of some serious counseling. Your husband probably does love you, but the addiction has taken over his life it would seem.
I wish you luck, but dont quit on your marriage until you have tried everything to save it.