((Isadora))
I just want to tell you a sotry of what happened to my bestfriend.
She met this guy (we both knew him) he chased her and finally they became boyfriend and girlfriend. It seemed SO sweet that he always wanted to know what she was doing, that when we wnet out he wanted to drop us off and pick us up from where ever we went... he was protective, loving and in control...
Take note of the word 'control'...
There were signs everywhere that he was controlling but we saw it as loving.
They went and worked in India for 9 months.. when she didn't want to be there anymore he took her passport off her so that she couldn't come back to Australia...
Warning sign that we still didn't really see... we saw it as he just wanted her to be there with him...
They ended up married and he had controlled her and changed her so much that she had a breakdown...
It took her a LONG time to free herself from him.
I know that it's a different story than yours but you need to be aware of the signs that can seem loving but are really possesive....
If the facebook etc needed to be deleted and you wanted it to be.. then you would have done it yourself...
Take care of you first and fore most. You are the only person that shuld be making decisions for you...
And keep writting here.
Love Belle xx
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