wow Belle sounds like you are really smitten with this new guy and having lots of fun on the fast ride.

I gotta ask though.... why such a rush to having sex? Geesh girl that's a big step to make so quickly don't ya think? You are so ready to invest your heart with him and seal it with sex..... just seems way too fast to me.

I admire your resilience and willingness to put your heart out there again but I wonder if you shouldn't be at least a little more protective of your heart.

If it were just for the sake of having sex that is one thing but if it is sex with a heart investment I think it wise to move more slowly. I would wait at least until his next visit home before taking it to that level of intimacy. If you think he might be 'the one' then all the more reason in my view to wait.

I wasn't going to join you guys in your discussion involving sex but here I am tossing in my two cents for what it is worth.