Thanks Sanity, your two cents is always welcome and appreciated.

I'm not going to rush the sex thing... it's more that I feel I wont know if he is right for me until then.. and because he is going away for 4 weeks back to work I guess I just want to experience everything NOW

I'm not exactly smitten.. it's more that he just seems reight.. maybe not mr right for ever but right for now
I am protecting my heart in some ways.. I don't feel emotionally attached yet.. so far it's been a whirlwind 3 days.. whole days spend together.. me actually taking time off work to do that - strange behaviour for me...but I am enjoying it and I think that's what counts.