Thanks perpetuallysad,
Yes all of the sisters remain friends. One lives in the neighbourhood the others in different towns but we get together for family gatherings at least a couple of times a year.

I do think people don't realize how hurtful their comments are sometimes. The sisters are generally very loving and kind to me. They, like their brother can be very understanding and supportive when I am dealing with depression. They just don't think sometimes. They let their mouths motor without thinking how they sound or how their words might hurt me. I could probably talk to them about it and raise their awareness and sensitivities but I just haven't felt up to it. I think they will always be awed by the sensational and wonder about me on some level.

You are right. It is maddening and it makes one feel very alone sometimes. I feel those whispers and suspect that kind of talk between people who know outside my ear shot. No doubt the sisters are glad their brother and I broke up even though they still accept me as family.