Personally, just from what you've said and how I would react, I would be mad too. My husband has many female friends. He was single until we met when he was 35, so he developed a lot of "girl" friends. At first this really didn't bother me because I didn't realize how "intimate" a lot of the women treated him. I pointed this out to my husband and he didn't even notice what they were doing. He's a really sweet guy and thinks that everyone's intentions are pure. I say bs to that! Anyway, it has led, over the past 5 years, to him not really talking with 3 particular women very much. I do not think that I have the right to pick his friends, but I do have the right to be the only person he's intimate with.

Just my perspective.