I dropped Match and Eharmony about 5 or 6 years ago. I met some men that way, but it was stressful...more than stressful, actually it was downright awful. I think you've done a good thing. I looked at your profile and saw your pic, btw, and I think you're very attractive. I think if you want to meet men, there must be other ways...though I haven't found any.
Patty