Dear (((((((JD)))))))),
Why don't you start your own meetup site for people with disabilities? You can download the simple machines forum (it's free) and send messages to everyone you know and I'm sure people on this forum would join you can have friendship and dating. You would know how it works because this forum is the Simple Machines Format...give it a thought, I think you'd be brilliant at hosting because you are fun, friendly and caring,
http://http://www.simplemachines.org/
Loving thoughts,
Rhian