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Originally Posted by not2exist
I'm in a long term "unofficial" marriage. I have just come to the awakening that all I do, and I mean 247, it trying to keep her happy at a very large personal & financial sacrifice.
Then I found out not only does she get paid, but also has her own funds to get what she needs. I have been trained very well by her, but today I have woken up & now I am "falling down."
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Dear not2,

I really think that you should do something about being in such a relationship, if there is all give and no take then it is very imbalanced and you will end up broke and alone.
If I were you I would honestly & truly start making her put her hand in her pocket to pay for things if it's a two way street then she shouldn't complain.
No one deserves to be a sugar daddy, things are meant to be balanced and shared, not lumped onto one person to the other like a kitty...and in all honestly Kitty Cats are the only ones allowed to be totally one sided in that regard...
Either get her to pay her way or put your size 12 directly on her well taken care of bot bot and send her out the door,
Rhian