Would you want someone who loves you to want to harm you any time you thought negatively? Or would you want them to be there for you to listen and bring comfort?

Keep in mind that there are highs and lows in every relationship. It is my understanding that to get through the deepest lows, both people must work through it together. If there's still a conflict and both people still want to make the relationship work, seeking a well-liked counselor to mediate, even if for just a few sessions, may bring some much needed relief.

Best wishes to you.