Hey not2,

that darned relationship again! Have you worked out yet whether you want to be in the relationship? There seems to be too much emphasis on what she wants, what she likes, what she expects and no indication about what makes you happy unless it is tied to her and her happiness.

I think honestly that your priorities are upside down and inside out; while ever we pin our hopes at happiness on somone other than ourself we are destined to be at the mercy of their whims. When we take responsibility for our own happiness we are in control and standing in our own power, that in itself brings us happiness,

Rhian