Hey Lisa,

Obviously you are in a situation that is unenviable. This however sounds more like DID (though there is some specific things you haven't mentioned that would indicate clearer whether it is DID), than bi-polar. I'm not qualified to assess or dx so the best thing you could do is contact the doctor and social worker who was inolved in the last hospitalisation. If you tell them what has happened and how he is behaving they may say "Hmmm not in his best interests for him to be behaving this way" and again go for an order this time through the court.

I'd also find out what happened in his last counselling session, by letting the Dr know where he went the Dr can call up any records the counsellor made.

I really hope that things go well for you Lisa but please be prepared for any eventuality, if he has truly snapped then in his mind if he doesn't love you any longer then you have to be prepared for that. I hope for your sake that it doesn't happen that way,

Loving thoughts,

Rhian