Dear The Pain Never Dies,

As a guy, considering what you have written of what your new guy has said to you, I'd think it a pretty darn good bet that he's as much in love with you as you are with him. As you probably know, guys just hold in things like that much more than girls do. I'd be amazed if some time in the next two months he doesn't tell you more about his really positive feelings about you. Take it easy, don't push him, enjoy what you have, and look for those little telltale signs of his real feelings, which as far as I'm concerned are coming loud and clear from what you say he says. And imagine! You'll have to change your screen name! The best of British luck to you.

Take care.