I hate you Don't leave me....is that what that book is called.........BODERLINE PERSONALITY disorder........oh it is so fun........
http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/bpd.html

We totally fear abandonment

Imagine if you will floating in space with no concept of who you are or what direction you are going........

Miscellaneous attributes of people with BPD:
People with BPD are often bright, witty, funny, life of the party.
They may have problems with object constancy. When a person leaves (even temporarily), they may have a problem recreating or remembering feelings of love that were present between themselves and the other. Often, BPD patients want to keep something belonging to the loved one around during separations.
They frequently have difficulty tolerating aloneness, even for short periods of time.
Their lives may be a chaotic landscape of job losses, interrupted educational pursuits, broken engagements, hospitalizations.
Many have a background of childhood physical, sexual, or emotional abuse or physical/emotional neglect