I agree, this is very sad and unjustified. At least she could do is tell you what's bothering her. It's too bad other family members wouldn't intervene and tell her it's not nice to do this. Everyone makes mistakes and it doesn't feel good to be left out. You are a nice person and don't deserve to be treated like this.

By the way I'm still on 'plum pit poop alert' with Bella LOL - just wanted to make you laugh. Thanks for your reply on my pet's thread.