Very good points have been made here.

First and foremost, one must do self care, especially online. While we do have a wonderfully safe environment here at PC, each member is responsible for themselves and their safety as well.

We cannot stop people from reading the forums. We also have no control over what people think or what they "get off on". Censoring ourselves because there is a risk that a pervert might be reading is like censoring all the books/magazines in a public library, or the nightly news, or the newspapers who print graphic details......it just wouldn't work. At the same time, we victims have the right to find support in a safe environment and share what we need to share in order to connect with others who understand and can support us.

I believe that PC is the safest on the net for all of us. Of course, if anytime you think there is a problem here with safety, please, by all means let a mod or admin know of your concerns. We welcome hearing from all our members and assisting you to get the best experience you can from being here.

With much love and respect,
_sabby_