Earlier, I eavesdropped on my bf on the phone with his best friend. He was in the computer room, and he thought I was asleep. The door was part-way open, and I could see the computer screen. He was looking at pictures of him & his friend (drunk party pics) and while he was talking to him, he was masturbating.

I covered my mouth so I wouldn't scream out. They were making plans to go hiking in a few weeks. His friend just got a new truck and they're going into the mountains to camp, drink beer, hike and after what I saw God knows what else!!!

My bf had a troubled past. He was abused & got into trouble, ended up in juvenile centers & jail a couple times. He never talked about his past "inside" and I respected his decision not to talk about it. I know the type of things that potentially go on "on the inside" and I kept those thoughts to myself, I didn't want to upset my man.

Is there any other girls out there who have a bf that likes to "swing both ways"? If so, any input and advice would be ever so appreciated!!!

I just don't know what to do. I am at a complete loss for words. I don't know how to approach this situation.

Also posting in the LBGT forum as well.

Note: went to post in the LGBTQ forum, and since I'm new to the site, don't have access yet.