It sounds like you are making a wise choice to pull it back for now. You have a bond that in time will come back to her. Perhaps for now it is wise to forgive her her youth and trust that a day will come when she realizes what really is important in life. All the fame and professional success in the world can never come close to the love of family. You have done all that you can do. I am sorry for your pain but relieved to hear you are finding a way to live with it.

I can totally get why it would help to settle some things in you to see other family is off her 'A' list at the moment. She will come around eventually. Kids hey! Geesh they can be such brats!! Smart and dumb all at the same time sometimes.

Definition of kid: anyone young enough to be my kid..... that would be anyone under 30... lol.