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anderson · Jul 05, 2010, 03:35 PM

MickG,
This post cought us by surprise. But those that have posted have made very good points. But we would like to post our point of veiw. Since this topic has really hit home for us.
1. Is that because my dx was changed , I was abused puplicly by those that truely believed that I had a biologicaly reason not to remember. This came from the local TGC. Not only that when we got no help from them the back up people within the community even falled us. These were the very same people that you are warning so many people againts. Now this happened way before we came here.
2. People can only use that which you do not accept yourself. When you put your stuff on the table people can not use it againts you.
3. If it had not been for this site we would have callapse a long time ago. This place gave us the means to confront the abuse that we had to endure from those within the community. Not from someone online looking for a victum.
4. so when giving the warning it must be put out with real world reality. Those here have given us hope to move on. It was my choice to use this place in an open honest manner for the simple fact my abusers used lies and secreats to keep control over us. Everyone has to learn the skills of how to judge a new person on their real worth. Even from here we have had a couple that we had to put on the ignor list. But we would not have done that had it not been for those that had allowed us to learn to be safe and heard by others.
5. So we hope that those reading this thread do not hide in fear it is by being open and honest that you remove the chains of the abusers from your lifes and learn the skills that help prevent future abusers taken over where the others have left off.
We hope that you have a good T and that you are able to share what you feel comfortable with yet at the same time allow others to deal with the issues that have brought them here. Safe cyber hugs from all of us.