Oh I have that book, haven't read it yet though... need to do that sometime. But anyway yes I have borderline and also narcissistic personality disorders. To me you seem too concerned with having a lable. BPD isn't something you want to be put on your file. Some of your dependancy issues sound like borderline traits. But no one here can diagnose you. I guess I just do some more research about it and learn more, that's what I did to help me understand what I had.