My plan now is to contact my MD again and talk to her about meds, at least. If she takes the same attitude toward me (and I know when they do that---it's all too familiar---the body language, the uptight tone of voice, you have the idea!) I will go somewhere else. I have a clinic in mind that I will try next if this happens.

to answer the question about DBT, as it is not covered on my insurance, I cna't even have it.

My plan there is to join a BPD-run DBT discussion group.

ty, everyone for your feedback.

Billi