Yes I have thought of that as well. I guess I will not know some of this for sure till she starts to open up more to me or someone. I just don't want to give up as I know she would not give up on me. I feel people are to quick to give up on some wonderful people in the world just cause "she or he has issues" Really who of us does not have some "issues." I know I do. However I also realize that one must be careful and I must act in her best interest as well. After all that is what it means to love someone is it not??