I will say this spwhite24: with my husband's issues, a lot of the time I play mommy and therapist more so than wife and I didn't realize it until perhaps it was too late. You need to keep that line drawn and at times it may suck you in but in the end, yes, you are the husband and doing what you are doing now is greatly admired in my book.

Being scared can be a positive thing. One of my mantras if you will is the metaphor of going to the dentist or some equal fear, once you get in the chair and realize it's not so bad you start to forget why you were so afraid in the first place. You're doing a good job and you'll be an amazing husband!