I do talk to her about us often. She is good @ making changes when need be concerning us. I think she might be holding back on not only saying what she is thinking for whatever reason concerning us. I also think she holds back on making herself happy from time to time either out of her own obligations she feels she has to do or just doesn't want me to get mad. I also think she is a closet case bisexual or maybe just curious but hides it in her mind as she was either told it was wrong or thinks it could end us. I honestly wouldn't care if "another girl," was decent & not some skank / nasty white trash b@tch. That & if she was honest w/ me I would not consider it cheating as it's a whole nether world that i can't compete w/ as a guy so why get mad, I just want her to find her happiness.
Maybe sending her to a "chick bar," would be a good idea, just drop her so she can find out lol. I think I will start another thread on this.