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Originally Posted by Rhiannonsmoon
Follow your own heart,
I don't know who gave you the negative atittude Lisa but I'd be sure they didn't intend to do that; I remember giving you a path of action that didn't actually involve threats, but enlisted the help of the treating doctors who put him into hospital last time.
Whatever you do I hope it is safe and that if he is going through an episode rather than honestly not loving you any longer and that it calms down and he comes home soon
Rhian
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... and I followed it. Unfortunately the I have been having to leave messages with the hospital and those who worked with him. My patience wears thin at times... I haven't heard back from T, so who knows what he's thinking about it. I also did send an email to his dad and although I would rather have not groveled, I did but I also said that unless he wants to bury his 37 year old son either from suicide or having another heart attack, he needs to step up and get T help. I told him it that this has nothing to do with how his parents and I feel about each other but rather that if they truly loved their son they would put those feelings aside and help him.
I am still in fight mode but I have moments of desperation. I refuse to divorce him and if he doesn't ever come home then I will have a hard time but I will accept it. I wish someone would help me. If I had an extra 2000 dollars laying around for a lawyer this would be going smoother but I don't.