Hey there Kerri
I would count my lucky stars that he is gone; there is nothing wrong with you at all and I think you did the right thing. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be in one? You've saved yourself a lot of heartache and grief and I'm being honest here if you had stayed in such a relationship he would have eventually taken advantage of you and that would have made you feel much worse.
Congratulations Kerri you are better, better for not allowing this guy to rule your life and ruin you for any decent relationship; you should be really proud of yourself,
Rhian