Rose, what a lovely name. I love the way the roses drape over fences. We have a rose on our side of the fence that actually belongs on the neighbour's bush but for some reason the huge beautiful bright blossom has chosen to drape itself on our side of the fence. I just feel kind of special because of this.

A friend of mine lost her Dad a few years ago. She kind of believes he is with her still. I'm not exactly sure how that works for her. I didn't want my parents with me after they died so I couldn't imagine how that would work but she says in her heart and mind he walks with her and she talks to him too. I think it helps her to think this way and for that I am very happy for her. She loves him so much, even though she misses him too.

It has been hard for you Rose. You have had to carry many grieving kind of things. Grieving or loss is kind of messy sometimes but it is okay. I hope you can say more here if you would like to.

Lots of care and concern for you.

Hunny