uoffl, something is really off here. i always assumed he must have treated all his girlfriends like he is treating you, but if not then why has he only hidden you? are you sure he isn't still seeing this other girl? i hate to suggest that but it would explain why he won't let you meet anyone in his family and why his friends don't like you. there is something really not right in this relationship of yours, uoffl. please don't stand for this. you always think there is something wrong with you but there never is. it is always him just treating you really poorly. you said previously he told his family about you but when on the phone with his mom he lied to her about being with you. there may be more of a reason why you are a secret than the reason he's giving you.