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In co-dependent relationships, "We need each other," which can be a healthy thing, often covers over "I need you to need me"; this can lead to "I will keep you needy because, if you ever get better, I am afraid that you will leave me." This kind of interaction is grounded in desperation and often spawns abusive and obsessive relationships grounded in neediness and control rather than love [caring] and respect.

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Taken from an article in the Resource section of this site. Which choice do you feel most strongly about as it pertains to the interaction of the members and the general outcome? Is this site truly a "supportive" site or are we just enabling each other to continue in the same old ruts of our existance?