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Originally Posted by peaches100
something i should not have felt.
So anyway, during my session she said she would attempt to reply to my email message. She said she remembered what i'd asked. So she told me what she thought of me, that i was kind, loving, and compassionate. She said that i'm hard on myself, sometimes extremely so. She told me that our ups and downs have helped her understand better ways of helping me. And she also said that it feels good to her when i'm able to take in her caring, and if it has a good result, such as making me feel cared about.
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To me this says she does care about you. When I've felt as strongly as you do about something it normally works out that I am in a kind of emotional flashback and if talked about, and talked about with T your finally "come too", well thats my language. No T isn't going to love as like a child loves a teddy, shes actually giving you much more, shes listening to your pain, a lot of people are unable to do that without putting themselves into it, thats what shes not doing, messing up her stuff with yours. We try to pull them into our phantays, positive and negative ones, but if she does that then she won't really be there to help you, shes "holding" you whilst you are "in it" jmho