Rhiannonsmoon, I've been in a relationship with him for 2 years and 3 months. This one is a pretty complicated one, I feel like I've been up and down on a roller coaster with loops...

AmDaws,
His ex isn't directly involved in his life, I think. As far as I know, he's always closed her off. I didn't tell him yet that it hurts me. I just repeatedly asked him when I can meet his family 'cause I'd really love to get to know them. He always says he's trying to choose an appropriate day when his mom isn't so busy so she can make dinner. That day hasn't come. I don't even need to have dinner, just to meet them and talk and let them get to know me too.

bloom3,
Sigh. I had a feeling he treated her much better than he treats me. It makes me feel like a really insignificant person, like I'm really bad to be treated this way 'cause I deserve it. I don't think he's seeing another girl as far as I know. He really honors honesty, so I think he wouldn't date someone else while we're in a committed relationship. I keep thinking, if I give him more time, things will change and improve. Whatever his reasons are, I realize he's not committed. I don't know how to respond to that though. What do you do when the person you want to be with, seems detached, ready to bolt yet not bolting. Is he keeping me around to feel safe? What is going on?