Oh man, that is terrible that no one informed you, I am cheering you on in regards of writing a letter, may sound corny, but "you go girl"
I only brought up my previous reply, cause I wasn't sure of what the nature of this, so I added my 2 cents of what I had learned about bedwetters (mostly males) from advertisement type stuff that is on the "freebie" writing pads from my husband's company, not his company, from where he works.
I am very sorry to hear what you and your daughter are dealing with, I will keep you in my thoughts, meanwhile here are some hugs of hope. . .
((((((((((( midnite_sun and daughter ))))))))))))

Take care,
"darkeyes"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON