Perna,
I have my own friends. He wouldn't wanna hang out with my friends. They tried inviting him to our social gatherings and pot lucks but he always declines so they got tired of inviting so I went by myself. My family invites him to go to family events and occasions too and he declines. So this is how our relationship goes, we see each other once a week, and the rest of the time I have my own life and he has his.