((((Rebecca))))

What a lot of stuff to deal with all at once when things are supposed to be simple. First I'd ask if your bf has ever had a back injury? That is the foremost cause of impotence in the world today; if he hasn't had a back injury then it could be any one of a number of issues causing it.

Be that as it may, it isn't your fault if he is impotent and it really isn't correct for him to blame you in any way. He may well just feel safe venting at you though that isn't a good reason for him to do it; there is no good reason for not being able to talk things through rationally.

I would wait a while if you are thinking of breaking up with him, just until you find what the reason is for his impotence because he could feel very much abandoned if there is something wrong that needs radical treatment. I'm not trying to make that your problem, I am just thinking of how he is probably feeling at the moment he could be very scared about some of the possible causes for the problem; even if you are just there for him as a friend for support.

I guess what I'm saying is that you need to think seriously about whether this relationship is or is not going anywhere...by what you have written, I'd say it isn't.

Hope you get it sorted,

Rhian