Thanks for all the replies The majority seem to say go for it or at least go see what happens so thats good to hear. Unfortunatlely meeting up isn't on the cards at the moment as we both have out vacation times used up all ready for the year, but who knows, if i could i would just go to him.
Its all just real frustrating, its the other side of the world but just feels so right Maybe i'm crazy but i've never felt like this about anyone before. Even though we talk at least 3 times a day on the phone, just a cuddle would make me feel soooo sooo much better