Melbadze: That "Law of the Garbage Truck" is GREAT! I wish there were somewhere here where you could save favorite posts, because I'd save your post there forever.

Rhia: I think bullying is always an issue, regardless of age, though it does diminish as you grow older. But it pops up at odd times, even for older folks. You really can turn around and walk away when someone tries. Or simply stare them in the eyes while they're bullying, wait til they're finished, say nothing and walk away. That disconcerts them. Or of course as you know you can jump right in and interrupt them screaming at them at the top of your voice, not letting them get a word in. That really disconcerts them. But it take so-o-o much energy! Personally, I'm too old to have that energy, but you can do it at yours.

The best of luck to you both!

Take care!