It scares me because my experience is that when people get angry I get in trouble. And it isn't that I can just not read stuff like people have said. I learnt that to get by I needed to know as much of what was going on around me as possible. I listened, I looked. That carries on now. To leave posts unread is as threatening for me as reading some of the stuff here. I would like to be able to not read but I can't. So I read and I am scared, or I don't read and I am scared.
This is - or should be - a good place. I've seen too many places like this fall apart and hurt people.
Like you, WW, and Gem, I am scared.